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Kathryn Temple's avatar

Just lost my comment somehow so will quickly say that I love this essay. There may be a genre emerging here, "fit lit"? Or maybe that's already a thing. Love the modernity quote, the description of how ex's define each other (what we're recovering from), the use of the photo as a hook, the moving description of what so many would dismiss as toxic masculinity (I too saw the sadness in the faces of those grotesquely misshaped young men), wow. Thank you.

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John Halbrooks's avatar

Enjoyed this. I used to run, but then my knees started giving me trouble. For a while, I tried to lift weights, but found it boring. Finally, I’ve found a wellness routine that suits me: yoga and long dog walks. My yoga studio is about 90% women, but since women are much tougher than men, I figure that if I can keep up with them at my age, then I’m doing ok. Plus, I always feel better after yoga, which seems like a good sign, and my studio is a kind, welcoming place that makes everyone feel at home.

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