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Blaire Modic's avatar

Outside the gates of the working world... I can so relate to this, Josh. I have been there. I often think of it as the "professional wilderness." You're outside the gates of the city, in a place that many others are afraid to visit. But their fear does not have to be your fear. Your integrity brought you here, and your integrity will guide you on. Although pragmatism says you should get back on the payroll as soon as possible, try not to rush back to the city. The wilderness offers more possibility. "It's opener here in the wide open air, where things can happen and frequently do, to people as brainy and footsy as you" (Dr. Seuss, surely misquoted).

On a more practical note, I offer that if getting a job depends on networking, and networking depends on relationships, and relationships must develop naturally, then networking can't be forced. It can't be a meetup or a mixer. It has to be kickball or sewing club or something like that. Let other people see you doing something you love. You at your best. I think you're already doing that by sharing your writing. The rest is in time's hands

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Amy Letter's avatar

It feels wrong to me that a job should be a "prize" -- it feels to me like a destructively misleading mixing of metaphors. A job may be something you compete for, but it's not a reward, it's a contract to work for remuneration. A job application is a "bid," and an interview is a demonstration, getting the job is always contingent on performing the job, and the job can be done perfectly but the contract still canceled because of external factors. No one should tie their sense of self up in this uncontrollable game, even if one chooses to play. Humans have been hustling and pivoting and exploiting for as long as we've existed. Rather than getting hung up on tethering by contract to an institution with the idea that the institution will protect and relieve the stress of life -- even if that means moving 1900 miles away, or bolting yourself to a laptop for hours a day -- we should look at the ground we're standing on and see what needs to be done or made or sold here. My kids are great at this: they have no concept of working for a company and don't want to move away. They want to breed expensive dogs and raise alpacas and sell eggs and mow lawns. If they follow these instincts I suspect they'll be happy. Anyway, just a counter-thought to add to the mix. :)

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